I've explained my poly to her, and that I am in love with these boys and that that's why I moved out here, to get away from my father's guilt tripping and to be with the people I love. And yet for New Year's, she sends me an email wishing me happiness and prosperity and so on, and ending with the words:
When are you coming home? You've had your fun, we're all waiting for you!
God. I just--
These fucking people.
Woooow holy shit. "You've had your fun"???
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'CAUSE ESCAPING EMOTIONAL AND PHYSICAL ABUSE TO GO LIVE IN A SITUATION OF YOUR CHOOSING
THAT'S FUN
AND NOW YOU'VE HAD ENOUGH
THINK OF ENGLAND WHY DON'T YOU
Ugh, tell me about it. I just wrote back and told her I wasn't nearly ready to visit England again. I don't understand why despite everything I've explained, they still thing that I'm going to think of that family as home and want to go back. It's like they think that if they just keep talking about it that way, eventually I'll agree??
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